when my JW dad died 5 years ago--i checked his will--and no mention was made of funeral arrangements. I was glad of that--the last thing i wanted was a jw propaganda opportunity.
As far as i am aware--he had no visits from any JW elders for over a year--and his jw grandkids ( my kids ) had never been near him--no letters --nothing.
so i arranged a very simple committal at the crematorium---no religious service-and i was his only relative there--plus 2 of my friends and 2 staff from the care home . There were no jw's there--probably because i never told any of them.
i think of my dad most days--and that is my definition of life after death---the dead live on in other peoples memory--till they are also gone.